“Alternative” but femme styles short, curvy, and petite. Masculine haircut (it’s just short) but with soft features (half asian so I’d like to date other PoC women, but you don’t have to be). Monogamous. If I join a polycule it would be as a parallel situation. Not interested in dating more than one person at a time. I don’t have the energy or interest in pouring my heart out to so many people, but against I’m not again a polycule as an ethical accessory.

I like the usual suspects of distractions like games, movies, reading, being alive. Nothing special there unless I get into specifics, and we can do that in a chat. I speak two languages and know American Sign Language. Making a lazy attempt at a third language if I find time.

Left leaning. Into music rather heavily. There’s almost always something playing even if it’s low in my office. Decently skilled at cooking, but my plating leaves much to be desired. A vegan diet but I’m a weird vegan in that I guess I don’t make it much of my identity outside of the kitchen. I do like animals though.

I go outdoors and actually have a life beyond the monitor. We can go to the aquarium or to a live show if we’re both located within SoCal. Wouldn’t mind a gym gal pal to get our cardio and lifting in or talk about routines as well. Ever camp? I go to a family reunion once a year.

Ideally something that could become long term even if it’s buds online. We can move to discord or (exchange numbers once we establish you’re not a catfish).

Working adjacent to the medical field. Currently working through grad school so I’m studious and might be a little tired in my free time, but I’m not a one word response type of woman. Dominant in nature and I can take charge if you’re passive or we can compromise.

It’s fine if you’re chubby or thick, but no plus sized women. Also if you’re just homebody with no Will for self improvement or a complete shut in who can’t communicate. I can only guess so much what someone is thinking. I work in therapy but I’m not here to be your therapist for free. Treat me with the same respect I want to give to you. It’s cute but only to a certain degree.

Ace inclusive. Sex isn’t everything for me if you’re not into it. I can adore you in other ways and be there to support you. Trans inclusive obviously.

If you read this and ask me “tell me about yourself” I’ll spontaneously combust. Be more exact or pretend you read it. If you just want attention or to get laid there’s easier ways. I promise I’m nice. Apps and cis men running around sending themselves is just exhausting. Im so old ahahaha….and yet I look spritely.

Even if you see this a day or a week from now shout out.