Hello all! As the title suggests I am only here looking for friendship. I know most on here are looking for more but I'm not in a place in my life where I am looking for a relationship. I ask that this be respected, I have not had any luck with it so far. We all like what we like but please be an adult and communicate properly if you feel you can not be a true friend because other feelings have developed.
While it would be nice to have someone closer to me so we can hang out I'm happy with someone I can chat to regularly and once we are comfortable having a video chat here and there. I really like deep connections, I'm not a surface level sort of person. I've struggled to find this in friendships unfortunately. I'm very loyal, supportive and great at hyping my people up. I also get very protective of who I get close to. I appreciate the same characteristics in a friend.
For hobbies and interests I'm a very spiritual/witchy type. I love astrology, tarot and really anything that has to do with connecting to yourself and the universe. I really appreciate those who keep a positive and growth oriented mindset. This does not mean ignoring the bad times. I certainly still get depressed and in a negative rut sometimes as anyone does but I don't live there. I do not shy away from darker subjects, I actually love that stuff. But I don't like when people constantly put themselves down and get stuck in that. I love music, art and writing. I listen to wide variety of music genres, love art in all it's forms and I enjoy writing on a regular basis. I am currently working on a book of poetry and thinking about either an autobiography or a book that is based around my life somehow. I absolutely love nature! I enjoy hiking and am also very into permaculture and sustainable practices. If I had the space I would be huge into gardening. I also enjoy doing some photography especially when I'm out hiking. Tiktok is my most used app and I will absolutely scream, cry and throw up if they ban it here.
A bit more about myself, I have lots of chronic illnesses which has reshaped my life in many ways. It has made me very interested in things like nutrition and generally taking better care of myself. I am very strict about how I take care of myself and value never getting preachy to others about what they do for themselves. I'm a very straightforward and pragmatic person and enjoy and seek these qualities in others. I can be very blunt and have a dry yet explicit sense of humor. I am not big on video games or those who spend hours of their day every day gaming. I'm also not at all interested in sports. I'm child free and don't mind if you have kids but that's also something I am not interested in talking about. I do have a dog who is my entire world and as a huge animal lover I love hearing about others pets and getting cute pictures of them.
Overall I'm hoping to finally find a bestie that supports me as much as I support them. Please be able to hold a conversation because I find that is a struggle for many.
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