Hello,

I am a 32 year old seeking connections close by or online. Whatever the universe brings along.

About me: I work two jobs and I’m studying psychology. I may be changing majors once I finish my associates which is soon. I have a cat, and enjoy reading, writing, cooking, making art and getting into whatever hypefixation that’s next in line. I am diagnosed with ADHD, so my hobbies do change here and there when I have time.

I am in my Victorian/velvet goth era but I am masc appearing with some cutesy undertones. I consider myself androgynous but I am born female. I love black and has always been my hyperfixations. Everything in my apartment is black (except the walls cause I’m not spending that kind of money only to undo it for whenever I leave).

I reside in LA. I like to go out when I can and plan for in advance. I enjoy going out and meeting people and getting coffee which I absolutely love. Sometimes I’ll hit the bars for some drinks. I am poly/ENM but I am single.

I am heavily into kink for hedonistic adventures, and I just can’t do vanilla. But that stuff takes time for me to get into with someone. Trust and the vetting process is important to me as a top. I also want to explore cuddling and kissing more with friends or whatever and just be free. I am breaking away from societal and religious constraints that have made me live a life of guilt and feeling terrible about myself, my body and my desires. I just have so much love and care to give.

I’m 5’5”, a bit on the thicc daddy side but I’ve been losing weight due to health reasons, I have dark brown hair past my shoulders a bit (used to have butt length hair but had to cut it). I’ve dyed it black a few times but it never lasts long. I have semi fair skin and freckles, and I can share selfies if needed. Maybe exchange IG handles? Aside from that, I do want to explore new places with new people especially restaurants. I’m a foodie (but with some dietary restrictions). Let me know if you’re interested in meeting? We can go grab some coffee or lunch. And if you live far we can totally be friends and share memes and silly IG reels.