I've never done this before in my life, so I'll probably screw it up. Jesus, what do I even say? A year and a half ago, I discovered my true sexuality after being married to a man since I was 18. He and I are still great friends, and we have kiddos together. But my youngest is 9, so not babies by any stretch. Liking kids is obviously gonna be a necessity for me, though.

I'm 100% lesbian and 100% monogamous. I'm fresh out of a heartbreak that was really the first I've experienced in my entire life. The woman I was deeply in love with and ready to marry suddenly decided to go back to her shitty, manilulative husband at literally the height of our happiness together. It was unexpected and brutal, and I honestly haven't fully recovered yet, but I'm trying to put myself out there a little.

I obviously do not want to get involved with anyone still tangled up with a former relationship. I need complete physical and emotional availability. Like TOTALLY single.

As for me, I'm kind of goofy, I guess. I'm not afraid to laugh at myself. I like lots of different things and am always looking for new experiences. I'm definitely a golden retriever lesbian and have masc tendencies, but I like looking pretty still and wearing a bit of make-up. My clothes are typically jeans and cowboy boots. I don't even own dresses or heels. Definitely a tomboy through and through, complete with a love for playing sports and building things with wood. When I had a girlfriend, I loved to romance her and spoil her rotten. It never got old...not even a little.

I'm tall and slender (and I like to work-out) but I'm not picky about body types. If you don't mind that I have no curves, I certainly won't mind if you've been blessed with them! I do find myself attracted to more feminine women, but they need to be down to earth still and not afraid to be adventurous and get a little dirty. Like...real dirt. I wasn't making an innuendo. Although... 🤔

I really am looking for someone local in the Phoenix/metro area to connect with. Mainly friendship to start since I'm still a little raw. Long distance relationships just seem like they would be really tough to maintain, but I know it's worked for people on here plenty of times so I'm not shutting it down entirely. Someone close-ish to my age would be nice because I don't want to feel like the baby OR the cougar, but I don't have like...a specific range.

Just to reiterate, my marriage to a man is totally over. I have my own home and my own career. And I am very much accepting of and fully comfortable with my own sexuality. I'm am looking for someone to love, take care of, marry, and (slowly) grow old with. Someone who will see my value and tressure me like I treasure them. Someone who's interesting and passionate about things. Someone that can hold a really deep and serious conversation with me and then belly laugh until our sides ache when one of us interrupts the moment with a loud fart.

I don't know if I'm supposed to share a picture on this post or if it will get my identity stolen or my dog kidnapped or whatever, so I guess I won't. I do have a real face and won't be afraid to show you a picture if it looks like we might be a good match. So...yeah. that's it, I guess.

(I wrote WAY too much. Nobody's gonna read this fucking novel.) 😒