whatever you wanna call it..hai! let's share our lives together :) i'm searching for a long-term relationship, that leads to a lifelong partnership. i'm a lovergirl, i want to romance and be romanced, but alas this world has changed. if i may quote one of my favorite excerpts, "i don't feel guilt at being unsociable, though i may sometimes regret it because my loneliness is painful. but when i move into the world, it feels like a moral fall - like seeking love in a whorehouse." by Susan Sontag :) i want a consuming love, a fierce love. "i see no one else but you" love. a patient love. chances are low but i'm taking my bets here.

i'm very romantic. i love sitting in the sun, basking in her beauty. i love poetry, it usually explains feelings i have no words for. makes you feel understood. i like pottery, body modifications (both cultural and decorative). i'm a sucker for history! i love learning everything i can about us :) i'm soft, and loving, love love love community. i think it's essential for social beings like us.

appearance wise, i am 5'3, darkskin and curvy. i have big poofy hair haha. we can exchange pictures early on if you'd like, i understand attraction is important. i think everyone has some level of every love language. my main ones are words of affirmation, physical touch and quality time :)

what i'm looking for: i like women with long hair, who are more dominant, but patient. who isn't afraid to take the lead (maybe enjoys it?). my height or taller. someone who loves deeply, unafraid. is sincere, respectful, caring, monogamous, affectionate. hopefully our love languages align in some way. age range is around 21-35, but not strict

i am in the gmt 3 timezone.

it feels like i haven't explained much but i can't think of much else (i need to sleep) and if anything we can get to know each other more as we talk? hopefully you get a sense of the kind of person i am and what i'm looking for.

if you've read this far, thanks! english is not my first language so my expression might not have been the most articulate but i'm trying :) if you're interested, please tell me a bit about yourself, not just a 'hey'. hope to hear from you 😊