I'm Sarah, a 29 year old lesbian. Looking for the Uranus to my Neptune.

I am a soft femme big (fat) girl, who likes other women from the range of soft femme to soft butch, who are on the thin to average side. I'm actively working on my weight, I lost 70 lbs but gained it back due to a once in a lifetime trip and I'm working on shaking it off again!

I'm an ISFP and a cancer. Im white, I'm atheist, and I'm childfree, but think about fostering one day. I do not drink or smoke (nicotine or 420) or do drugs, and I don't like any of it near me. Dealbreaker.

My love languages are words of affirmation, physical touch, and quality time, in no particular order. All three of these things are important to me. Physical touch is something that I find to be very important. It's important in a relationship to be physically and emotionally intimate with my partner. I love to cuddle, I love to kiss, I love to fuck. I want to touch you all the time, and want you to want the same.

I am a pleasantly clingy and very loving and loyal person. I'm looking for a long term relationship, someone I might consider marrying one day. I'm not here for flings or short terms. I want to have the closest thing possible to a mind meld with my partner, where I tell them everything and they tell me everything. There is almost no topic I won't talk about with anyone, I am very open and honest. Honesty and communication are extremely important to me. In that vein, please feel free to check out my post/comment history.

I want to travel to a lot of countries, and I also want to get my degree and become a nurse practitioner. I'm currently in school pursuing this. I want to have a house that is ours, with a lot of pets/cats. I want us to have two incomes and be stable, so we can enjoy our lives together.

I like to talk with you, type up huge conversations like this post and really converse. If you want to answer me in less detail, or a few sentences, I don't see you putting forth effort and that's disheartening. Please be a conversationalist! I dont reqlly have time to do instant messaging back and forth, what with school and work, but I love to exchange long messages, even if it might take me a day or two to respond.

This whole post isn't extremely structured, I'm just letting it flow as I think of it. This next section will be the worst of that: I love to read. As a teenager I was interested in Japan and that has lingered a little bit. I love music, I sing and play as well as listen. I love fantasy and comedy, horror and sci-fi. I love the cold weather, and I love cats. I love seafood, and I like ranch on my pizza, but I'm not crazy about pizza itself. I love Skyrim and The Last of Us, as well as The Sims, FO4, RDR2. I love Sweeney Todd, although I'm not really a person for musicals. I cuss/swear like a sailor. I love Studio Ghibli. I like rock; System of A Down, Disturbed, Godsmack, FFDP, Three Days Grace, Breaking Benjamin are some examples.

Lately I've been trying to read a lot of sapphic novels, most recently I read Blue Is The Warmest Color. But my favorite so far has been Tipping The Velvet. Any suggestions?

Message me if any of this resonated with you. Let's U-Haul it. Please respond with your own relationship ad back, (cis) females only! Ages 26-33.