I just want to find my forever person. I want a monogamous relationship. I don’t really want a long distance relationship so I know posting on Reddit is a long shot.
I’m funny/goofy with a quick wit. I’m chubby. I’m currently training to be a medical technologist at a hospital, and I love cellular biology. How I spend my time after work depends on my current hyperfixation, so right now I just play a lot of Vault Hunters (modded minecraft) after work. I have the cutest black cat. I love swimming laps so if anyone wants to help encourage me to start swimming again, I’d love that. Life is just hard sometimes. I want to learn Spanish and maybe a programming language so as soon as my hyperfixation with Vault Hunters fades, hopefully I’ll get back into those. Oh, I was also painting with watercolors for a bit and I would like to get back into that. I like traveling and going to concerts, musicals, and ballets. Last concert I went to was Paramore. Next musical I’m going to is Mamma Mia. And naturally, I just saw The Nutcracker last weekend.
I would say I’m a submissive pillow princess (I’ve given before and I’m open to trying that again, but yeah I would say I’m 80-90% pillow princess). I’m looking for a partner that will be goofy with me even during sex. If we aren’t laughing together, I don’t want it. I’m a good girl, but sometimes people misunderstand my wit for smart-assery and call me a brat, but I don’t want to be a brat. I’m needy and clingy, but I can respect your boundaries.
I want someone to take care of me, and I’ll take care of them. There is so much love in my heart and I need someone to give it to. I’m also hoping to find a partner who loves learning as much as I do. I would love to have someone to share new knowledge with and receive new knowledge in return. Ideal partner is 5-10 years older than me, intelligent, single, chubby 🥰, goofy/nerdy, accepting of my needy-ness, good communicator, and makes me feel safe and accepted. Looking for more of a Daddy/Mommy Domme type, not “Mistress” vibes.
I would say communication is one of the most important things for creating and maintaining a healthy relationship. Please do not expect me to know that you’re upset if you just change your tone a little bit rather than tell me explicitly. That being said, sometimes if I’m overwhelmed or sad, I’ll be nonverbal. Usually yes or no questions are the way to figure out what’s bothering me, or texting. In general though, I’m a good communicator when I’m in the right mindset.
This is way longer than I realized, but hopefully the right person sees this and messages me with a short introduction about themselves. ❤️
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