My weaknesses are Smarties, SweeTarts ropes, a bloody mary with bacon garnish, cheese of all kinds, and kittens. What about you?

Hey everyone. I've lurked on this sub for quite some time and decided to make a post. You never know, right?

So about me: I'm 5'3" and 135lbs, pics of me are in my post history. I'm looking for mutual attraction and connection, potentially leading to a monogamous relationship. I've tried casual/poly entanglements, and over time they end up not ultimately satisfying for me. I get emotionally involved quickly, so feeling like I'm sharing someone doesn't sit well with me.

I've been in the military for 12 years and plan on retiring. I have three cats and am decidedly a cat person. I finished an associates in social science and am beginning to pursue a B.A. in psychology. I have a motorcycle and enjoy working on it and riding. We're coming into winter temperatures now, unfortunately. I'm a lifelong baseball fan (Yankees). I'm also a lifelong PC gamer. I like growing plants, mainly succulents. I draw with charcoal and graphite when inspiration strikes. I do Orangetheory fitness classes, PT with my section, and recently started MMA and plan to finish it all the way through black belt. Overall I'm fulfilled and passionate about my life and what I do, but sharing it with someone would be nice.

You...

- mid 20's to 40's

- femme/feminine presenting

- similar body type to me, but height isn't exactly relevant

- bottom or switch

- no kids

- stable, self-sufficient, and self-assured

I like learning about and sharing in my person's interests and hobbies and so on, so I don't limit myself in that respect. Same with specific personality traits. The above items are things I found I liked in past relationships (or what has been missing before).

Feel free to send a chat invite, and please be ok with sending a pic of yourself and if talking progresses, FaceTime or video chat on Discord.

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