I've been on HRT since august of last year, things are going reasonably well but I still feel like I have a long way to go. But I've got some nice boobs now, so I'm getting there. I'm a giant nerd and love getting way too excited about different hobbies (anime, cartoons, model building, 3d printing, cars, motorcycles, making things, the list goes on). I'm always up for new show recommendations. Also I love cooking, so there's a strong chance I'll bake you cookies just because I feel like it 😊 This is what I look like: https://i.imgur.com/M61rpL7.jpg

Anyways, a couple important boundaries that I've struggled to get across in the past:

I'm some degree of asexual. When it comes to sex, I'm really not interested. Cuddles, kissing, other forms of intimacy are great, but I don't want to be touched sexually. Part of it's the mismatched hardware (which I'm getting removed in February, woo!), part of it's bad partners in the past who treated me poorly. I'm not 100% repulsed by it but it takes me a long time to feel comfortable with someone to the point where I'd be willing to sleep with them, and I'd be just as happy never doing it again.

Also, I'm monogamous. I'm not at all interested in poly, open relationships, whatever flavor of non-monogamy, none of it. I've done it before and it wasn't pleasant. I've gotten way too many "hey you should know by the way, I'm married" texts so please don't be that person. But if you want some juicy trauma dump stories then I've got some crazy stories to share.

Anyways if you want someone to talk to about your day, nerd out about something you enjoy doing, or want someone to hang out with, let me know! I'm looking for friends and ideally more if we click, depending on distance (I don't mind a bit of a drive but I'd like to keep it within reason).