Hi there!

Living in a small country in a small town makes it quite hard to date, let alone find queer people. So I'm turning to reddit in hopes of finding my gamer gf (may the lord have mercy on me lol).

Basic stuff about me:

I'm gay, cis, INFJ, 173cm tall, healthy/average build, white and have shoulder-length brown hair. While I do take care of myself, I've never believed myself to be especially attractive. This is does not stem from a lack of confidence but rather self-awareness. For example, I grew up with bad acne which did not only leave some scars, but dissuaded me from learning make-up when I was younger. Even now I don't wear it because I feel like it wouldn't make me look much better lol. That said, I exercise plenty and have come to appreciate good health more than anything.

I'm somewhere in between demisexual and asexual, meaning I'm not averse or completely disregard it, but it's not super important to me either. My favorite things in life are writing fiction, animation/anime/manga, video games, YouTube, learning languages, pets, running and being in the countryside. Sometimes I spend hours just developing some obscure story idea in my head and that's my entertainment for the evening. I'd love to write something that could adapted into animation, but that's a pipe dream and a half. I'm going to uni for software development this fall and I'd love to make a game sometime using the programming I've learned.

Dealbreakers:

You'd have to be located in Europe. Unfortunately I'm only attracted to cis and people of healthy weight (please remember I'm only speaking in romantic preference context here). I'm not okay with drug use or 420 friendly. If you are the type of person who makes their entire world revolve around who you are dating, I'm not for you. If you are hypersexual, I'm not for you. This is kind of a big thing to drop already lol but I don't want kids, which might be important to you. Finally, please only message me if you're around 20-25 years old.

About you:

My wish is to meet someone sweet who doesn't mind long conversations both through text and eventually voice calls. If you're shy then that's fine too, because shy people make my heart melt (as cringy as that feels to say haha). I'd love if you wanted to play games together, and preferably have tons of interests and random stories you want to share!I tend to gravitate to the soft/femme type but that's a very general statement of course. Nobody is just one thing. I guess another way to put is that I have enough unintentional RBF for two, so you should ideally come balance me out! 😁

What I can offer you is someone that will listen to anything you want off your chest, big or small. If you found something cool and want to gush about it, I'm your girl. If you're having a bad day even though you don't feel like you have the right to complain, I'm there. I think I have an open mind and I want you to feel like I always have your corner. My friends describe me as a safe space, so I hope you too can feel relaxed around me and just be yourself.
I think that's it for now, thanks for reading everything! Looking forward to hear from you 😄