hi hellooo! I'm Aubrey, a 33yo trans woman from north Texas, though I have designs to eventually move elsewhere in the states. I am looking for a committed relationship and hopefully my life partner.

I am a dorky nerdy art type who lives with her head in the clouds. I have been doing art and writing for much of my adult life, and creative expression is very important to me! I love dark fantasy and mysterious things.

When I'm not doing (or talking about) that, my main hobby time goes towards video games; my brain likes being active! I tend to like atmospheric and immersive games, some co-op games, and games that are more brainy than fast (I'm so bad at fast.) I really don't play a lot of the popular live service games (though I do play FFXIV and have nascent interest in other MMOs.) Lately I'm playing Deep Rock Galactic since that's what my friends are playing. Games are usually an important social function to me.

I am somebody who is very committed and has strong humanist morals. I deeply empathize with other people. I am known among friends and family as being strongly supportive; however, please understand that I am an individual and a peer and cannot be your therapist. I have done my therapy homework over the past decade, and while I of course still have some issues like everyone else, I have actively tried to be the best possible version of myself I can be, and I respectfully expect similar energy from you.

I am veeeery touch-oriented, both romantic and intimate. Close, quiet moments are what I dream about. I am also an acts of service and quality time type of person. I'm weak at words of affirmation due to family neglect growing up, but I usually warm up to people I get close to eventually.

I'm also the sort of person who looks to talk daily and would like to meet somebody with similar energy. This may feel like "small talk" to some, but I genuinely like to hear about my partner's day, as it makes me feel closer.

Regarding you: I have a few preferences.

• Obviously no men. I am not poly. No smokers, please. I would prefer someone that is in the US.
• Please be over 30. I will be 34 by October.
• I reeaaally really want my partner to have similar creative energy to me. Art and writing matter hugely to my happiness and I want someone I can share my joy with.
• I am pretty introverted and prefer indoor life. Texas makes being outdoors not that glamourous.
• I'm not interested in children.
• I was not raised with dogs and am not a dog person. Sorry!

Regarding contact--please read!

If this post is still here, then yes, I am still searching! Come say hi!

For our mutual safety, I typically want to do some kind of verification before we move communication off Reddit. Please send me a picture of yourself with your message and I will respond in kind.

I do not use Reddit chat! I also don't really read comments because of specific social media anxiety. Please go ahead and click here to send me private message to reach out to me! Please tell me about yourself! You can just respond to the points in my post if you like!

I use Discord primarily for contact outside Reddit. I am willing to accommodate if you are not on the platform, though.

I look forward to hearing from you--I have been searching for you for some time! Let's go forward and live our best lives together🖤