I didn't think I'd ever have to write one of these again, but life is funny like that sometimes, so here I am, I guess...

Anyway, I won't bore you with my story (just yet), especially considering my latest breakup was amicable and not really dramatic. Instead, here's what you probably clicked this for: a little introduction of me.

I'm Maya, I'm 23 years old, and I'm a trans lesbian (and also maybe poly, though to be fair I've never dated more than one person at once so I wouldn't know if I like that in practice). I'm from the little dumpster fire known as Poland, and have been living there all my life. I have a bachelor's degree in Computer Science (with the Software Engineering specialization) and I'm currently trying (and struggling) to find a job in the industry. I know, trans girl programmer is such a stereotype, but to be fair, I'm not that passionate about it, I just have a semi-decent brain and figured it's something that pays well.

As for my actual interests... well, I really like to write. In English, in Polish, it doesn't matter. I've started a lot of novels (and never finished any because my brain doesn't like me), and done countless roleplays, both group and 1x1, sfw and not. I love creating fictional worlds, characters, making up plotlines, and writing exciting scenes. It's great! When I'm not doing that, I like to enjoy the works of others - some of my favorites are Danganronpa, RWBY, Genshin Impact, Sonic the Hedgehog, NieR, Pokemon, Honkai: Star Rail, Persona (only played 4 and 5 though). I'm also a proud mom of one fluffy kitty, she's the light of my life and has been with me most of my time on Earth (she's going to be 15 in October)

I'm 191cm tall and the embodiment of the expression "gentle giant". I've been told by multiple people that I look a bit intimidating at first, but that I'm one of the most chill people they know, and I have to agree - I tend to have a relaxed, optimistic attitude to life, and I'm hard to anger. I'm unfortunately still deep in the closet and pre-everything because this country is hell and also my parents would murder me if they knew my identity and orientation.

I'm said to be a good listener, but (as you can probably tell from the size of this post), I can talk a lot too. Especially when it's about something that matters to me. If you ever ask me to explain the plot of Danganronpa to you, I'll happily oblige, but I hope you weren't planning anything within the next 7-10 hours.

When it comes to relationship-relevant stuff: my main two love languages are quality time and touch - watching something together while cuddling and having snacks sounds like the perfect date to me, I really don't need much more to be happy. I'm a bit clingy and when I vibe with someone, I can talk with them almost 24/7 (I remember talking with one of my exes till 7 a.m. once, literally all night). Sexually I am the bottomest of bottoms and subbiest of subs. I am a bit of a sexual person, so being with someone ace would probably be a bit of a struggle. I have some kinks, even some that might be a little out there, but a lot of them can only be explored in roleplay anyway, so it's alright if you don't share them (and no worries, it's nothing too bad, I think.)

As for who I'm looking for - to be honest, looks don't matter to me that much, beyond one little thing. I have a very difficult relationship with masculinity because trans stuff, and I don't want to unpack that, instead just tossing the whole suitcase into the ocean. What I'm trying to say is - I much prefer my partners to be femme. Besides that, I don't really pay a lot of mind to it, personality is much more important. As for what I'm looking for in that - someone kind, sweet, someone who has a sense of humor, someone who I can geek out with one minute then cuddle and make out the next. Oh, and ideally, someone in the 20-26 age range. I might, like many, find MILFs hot, but for a serious, life-long relationship, I'd prefer someone more or less in the same stage of life as me, so the power balance isn't all out of whack. Oh, and also, smoking is a huge turn-off to me, both because of the smell and family history.

I'd ideally like someone close enough that we could meet up relatively often, and it wouldn't be that much of a hassle to move eventually, and I'd definitely be leaning towards me moving rather than bringing someone here, even just within my country there's few worse places to be queer than my city...

Aaand I think that's where I should probably wrap up, considering how much I've written already. The rest you can find out by messaging me, if I seem like someone you think you'd vibe with. Personally, I don't really like reddit's message system, so if you have Discord, send me a friend request and a message there, I'm @neonarmageddon. Hope to talk to you soon ^^