Hey!

I've been waiting a long time to do this, to make sure I was in the right head space, and I feel ready now.

About me: I'm just a nerd, plain and simple. I like my anime, sci-fi, fantasy, and comedy. I'm 5'3", black, and I'm a huge Swiftie, even if her actions as of late are none too pleasing. Animal lover, with an intensely crippling fear of spiders. You know who the bravest Gryffindor is? Ron Weasley, for going into that forest.

Music wise, I'm a lover of most things pop, but my mix is honestly all over the place. You might hear Kendrick Lamar followed immediately by Elton John, or Wham! (because who doesn't love the 80s?).

If someone were trying to trap me in a box, the best way to do that would be with a video game console and a long RPG.... Or strawberry shortcake, I'm too weak against the shortcake.

When it comes to the bedroom, I don't switch. I am more than happy to spend hours on my partner to satisfy her needs, and do not need that in return. I don't get any pleasure from receiving, only giving. In other words, if you're a Pillow Princess, here's your Prince. That does rule out some trans women, but you deserve a sex life too, and it has been an issue in the past. Sorry :(

I have a goofy little mutt named Ellie, and she's a handful. Friendliest dog on Earth once she's aware you won't step on her. Winning her over is as simple as Pupperoni.

I have a childlike personality, but that's because I prefer not to let life stress me out, and pass it on to others. I grew older, but I never truly grew out of all my interests and hobbies. Writing, singing, gaming, trivia, learning for the sake of learning, and loving animals.

I am estranged from my family, with low contact with my siblings (whom I love very much). It's something that pained me to do, but it was necessary for my mental health and I'm much happier for it. I was a perfectionist, but not any more. I am a deeply flawed human being and that's okay. Nobody is perfect, and it's weird I was raised to try to be!

I strongly believe in a work life balance after hitting a strong burnout. So, I can admit that I am far from ambitious these days. I'm looking for a simple life with someone. A life where I like my job enough to do it every day, my partner and I are DINKS, and we have a small home with enough yard space for a garden and dogs to run. Riches and fame are cool, but they won't be there to hold at the end of my life.

The best sound in the world is a cats purr, closely followed by gently falling rain. The best smell in the world is a woman, with no close seconds. The best feeling in the world is caring for someone who cares for you just as much back.

About you: who saw this post and thought, "Oh. That's my person!" Chat me. I do run a busy restaurant, so may not reply straight away, but I will eventually. Just be patient.

I have SFW photos only, and have no issue sharing them. I will verify my identity and yours, because nobody has time for a man pretending to be a woman. If that's an issue, you're probably a man! :)