Hi! I’m looking for a best friend, someone I feel motivated to wake up for, as I just lost my person of several years a while ago. I'm mainly interested in those from the US and Europe, since I’ll eventually be moving to Europe. (Other countries welcome as well though!)

I have to know if I match up on core beliefs with someone before I can allow myself to really feel close and develop feelings, so I really only want to talk to people who feel similarly to the following:

• Applies mainly to Americans: I’m very much pro-abortion, pro-feminism, just pro-women. Democrat, liberal, etc. You can probably see that by going through my profile as well, in which I tend to make a lot of comments on my favorite TV show, 90 Day Fiance lol. (And I definitely welcome anyone reading to go through my comment history to see if you think we’d get along.)
  • I’d say I hold some antinatalist philosophy as well (heavily respect it at least), though I’m not completely one myself. Maybe more of a fencesitter. I’m more concerned with finding the right partner right now, because without that, there’s no point for me to skip ahead to children. It’s okay if you're not a fencesitter, want kids, don’t want kids, etc.
• I’m agnostic, and very much dislike organized religion.
• I believe the dog breed pitbulls should be phased out, for human safety, pet safety, and for their own sake.

If you feel the same way about these things, that’s really awesome and I hope you keep reading! More about me beyond core beliefs:

• While serious about the aforementioned topics, I really enjoy being silly! I joke around a LOT and just love to laugh!
• I’m average height, slim, and in university for computer programming. It will be my second bachelor’s degree, the first was in nutritional sciences (basically a biology degree).
• Love gaming!! I don’t do it as much because I prefer to have someone else to play with, but I’m open to all types of games. (Just don’t want to primarily play FPS.) I very much want a gaming buddy – even if you’re new to gaming, I can teach you!
  • Same thing with movies/shows, I much prefer being able to watch and discuss it with someone else. I often talk while watching (I try to do so on the silent scenes or just pause it), whether to joke around/make fun of it or discuss the psychology of their actions, so if you do that also, we’ll have a great time!!
• I’m not very active, although I’d love to be more so. I’m probably not fit (pun intended) for a super active lifestyle, more of a homebody at heart, but I’d LOVE someone who would want to get out more with me or take me out with them, go swimming and things and just be a bit more out there.
• Music and singing are huge passions of mine.
• To be transparent, I am going through a bit of a hard time and have Hashimoto’s, which is an autoimmune thyroid condition. It causes extreme fatigue, which does get annoying at times. Eventually I will have to be on medication for life (and will have fatigue initially adjusting the dosage, but it will take away the issue when correct), but the life expectancy is normal.
• I don’t expect to agree with anyone on everything 100%, but I want to be able to work things (like misunderstandings) out with kindness and compassion. I’m an open communicator, and want the same type of person. I’m not looking for those who shut down when faced with a difficult conversation.
• I qualify for a type of Polish citizenship by descent (more of a “fast track” to citizenship), which is incredibly lucky because I don’t want to stay in the US. So in about a year, I’m hoping to move to Poland. There are a lot of details regarding this and I don’t want to ramble too much, but I’d love to talk about it!

I think that’s basically it without writing a novel! If you think we could be a match, please feel free to message me. 😊