Before you go, lookup the place and reviews. Even if the party is hosted by a separate promoter, the club is going to use mostly their staff, so knowing if the bouncers are going to protect you is important. As well as bar a wait staff. Some places will have lgbtqia nights but it's mostly for show. It's better if you go with someone but you can also see if there's a Facebook even attached to it. I like to see if other people I know are interested so I can ask if they've been and liked it.

Look up the place on google maps and check out the surrounding buildings and neighborhood. Look for parking and all routes you'll need to take depending on if you drive or get a ride share. As well as nearby gas stations and businesses that will still be open when you leave, like qt. QT is a safe place and can help if you're in crisis. Or can just be a chill spot to wait and get your bearings if you need to sit in the car before heading back on the road. Also, knowing what will still be open gives you an idea of the crowds afterwards and any possible issues you may run into.

If you drive, try to ask if someone can walk with you to your car when you leave. These are some of the basics I was taught when I used to go out more often. I usually had someone with me, but started going out alone more often. Stay safe and have fun.