Exactly what it says and my apologizes in advanced, thoughts are scattered after a heated dispute. My mother and I were living under my grandmother's apartment since 2016. My mother was kicked out of her previous two apartments before graciously "deciding" on returning to my Gma who was poor in health. I on the other hand left my previous apartment after an issue with my roommate and girlfriend (they were sleeping together) I became a drunk on suicidal behavior fornsome time while she did her own thing. Yes, she helped care for my Gma to an extent and my family expected me to help out more than my mother but how can I when I know the struggle of power anything becomes? Fast forward, 2017 of December shes out of a job, forced resign. I eventually become out of a job too.

She helped me with college bills, then eventually I get a new job and help her back out. Grandmother passes and she feels her calling is in Arizona, with her first love. Apparently that doesn't work out and also she had life saving surgery from some gallbladder infection the doctors say would have killed her within a few months. During that time I get stuck with Bills, rent, paying her cable bills(multiple) and dealing with anger that she pawned off some of my grandmother's jewelry. She comes back. I come home late(4ish) from work and see a mess in a hallway, immediately that doesn't fly with me. Her mess. Begin moving the stuff to the living room, and she gets up questions why am I doing that, immediately she responds back "this is my apartment" slowly becoming more agitated. I yell back its not hers.

Her name isn't on the lease and neither is mine. She says she it doesn't matter cause her old job documented that she took "fmla" for my Gma and she helped her so it's her apartment. Starts hitting me. Threatens to call the cop on me so I encourage it as well as doing the same for security. Its listed as "Verbal Dispute" if I had a wide range of days off and no driving lessons then I would have written assault and took the risk of us both getting arrested as the cop stated. All she does is emotional damage. She didn't talk to the family nor my grandmother for years until it became convenient. Sorry if this sounds like venting I just need to know how to deal with this.

Revenant information: This is a New York City Housing apartment. None of us is on the lease I'm 24 Shes mid 40s I paid last two months of rent and change the cable from my grandmother's name to mine. I'll add anything if you guys need me to. I didn't mind giving up the apartment but I am now not willing to push myself back for a woman who doesn't take responsibility for herself, her future and her actions. Edit: The apartment is insanely cheap as a sidenote. 300 for a two bedroom