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[Seattle] Physically/Emotionally Abusive Boyfriend Threatening to Evict
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BooksandBiceps is in Seattle, WA
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Hey guys!

Quick question for you. For the last year and a half I've been speaking with an ex of mine through a bad relationship. They've been together 2-3 years, but at least for the past year and a half she's mentioned gaslighting tactics, physical abuse (taking her by the neck and throwing her), demanding she give her pet up for adoption, etc. She's finally had enough and looking to leave him.

Unfortunately they have a townhome together and agreed to some kind of payment plan. She's paid the majority of her share through her stock and savings (decent job with a local tech/commerce employer, you can put it together) but still owes $68,000.

What are the options here? Is she SOL? What kind of possibilities can I offer her? I can't imagine if they split he could literally evict her from the house (given I haven't seen whatever their agreement was, and he took her to a notary) and depending how the court case goes I can imagine some leniency offered given his behavior. But these are all theoreticals, I have no legal experience, and I'm shooting in the dark.

I know you can't make any promises, but what are some likely outcomes I could offer to build her spirits and resolve. Anything positive?

Thank you for all your help.

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