My ex and I (never married) have been separated for 3 years. We had to do a hypothetical agreement in the courts when we still lived together on the idea of if we ever split. That original agreement states that primary placement will be with me(the mother). Up until these past 12 months we were always able to handle things between ourselves like who has our child when and where, varying pickup/drop off times, finances for providing for child, ect. We originally came to the agreement last summer that she would go to school where he lived(we live an hour apart) because at the time he was working weekends and I was sympathetic to him being able to spend time with our child, even though I worked weekends as well just not as many. We got through the school year and as well as it was it was not my ideal.

Now we are about to start the new school year, less than 2 weeks away, and he drops the info on me that his other child(not mine) has lifelong medical problems, he is being evicted, and plans on moving even further away. We have had many talks about school and everytime he refuses to let me have her enrolled in school by me, it ends up being a demand by him and I have no say in the matter. I am sick of it, I am done feeling like I am being bullied by my child's father and being pushed out of her life because that is what his new girlfriend wants.

So here's the question, if I were to enroll my child in school by me and use that still court valid primary placement standing in my name, would there be anything he could do against me?

I do not want him out of her life, I don't want him to need supervision, I do not want money from him(never have, never will). All I want is to have a say in my child's life, and to have her around me so I can actually spend time with her, and for her father to be able to discuss things involving her without being called names or have threats made. But I am ready and willing to get a lawyer if need be.