I (27f) blocked him (44m) every way I could. He continues to send creepy/threatening texts from numbers i dont know all intended to scare me. i dont respond and block them immediately. in the past i would get sucked in and respond trying to defend myself and it would eventually lead to us seeing one another. This time I'm continuing to ignore him.

One text was saying how happy he is with his new girlfriend and how he might see me at a concert my ex husband is playing at since hes working security. In the past he contacted my ex husband when we were talking about getting back together and told him hurtful intimate details about me.

The last text I got was about how everyone is going to be staring at me at this wedding im in in his hometown because he told everyone terrible things about me. and his new girlfriend (whom i was childhood friends with) will support him in all the claims against me. I'm freaked out and I dont know how to handle this. I contacted both the police and the courthouse and they cannot issue an order of protection without an arrest. I guess my question is how can i handle this? How do i behave at this wedding?