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Need some advice for child support and what to do right now
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Awhile ago I split up with my boyfriend because he had gotten rather abusive to the point of hitting me and yelling at me daily. I was to the point where I was becoming close to being psychotic which including yelling back and him and throwing my stuff outside, cussing him out and crying all the time. Fast forward to about six weeks later and I'm living with my mom again and I'm seven months pregnant with his child.

The problem here is my mom is not rich, I know this, she is doing more than I expected her to do in the first place. However, the father, my ex, is doing everything he can not support me financially since I left as well as avoiding all accounts or responsibility he should have for a child he wanted honestly more than I did. I did want the child, but he really wanted the child. I have no money to my name, no job and no financial support because I live with my mom now and she's head of the house instead of me. I was considered head of the house because my ex is on disability and I was his caretaker. However, that didn't go well.

He spends on his money on substances and cigarettes as far as I know. I went back because I needed to get all my stuff from his house which some of his he lost, damaged by throwing it in trash bags or presumably gave away since he would do that type of thing regularly. When I was back, I told him I desperately need money, but his answer was I needed to come over there to ask or talk to him as well as "be polite." The problem with this is he told me no to trip at him over the phone when I was a little bit angry because of a lot of my makeup coming up missing as well as my kpop albums being damaged. My tone was a little harsh but I was not cussing him out or anything. I did get upset with him and he said "fuck you bitch" over the phone and I hung up on him. He even lunged at me because I was looking at him wrong when I came over to collect my stuff and kept stalling while I asked for it.

I don't know what to do since I'm still pregnant and I only have diapers for my son. No crib, no clothes, nothing I really need and it sucks to know he's holding this money of over my head as a punishment for leaving. I feel like crying all the time because it's so hard to get a job pregnant and I just want to be able to support my son and I. The worst part about this is I got him on recording saying I deserved him assaulting me because of my actions and he "knows he's right." I don't know if that will do anything right now because I'm just pregnant. He also told me that I may see him for child support and now I'm stressed that he's going to disappear on me. Any advice would be nice.

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