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First off i would like to preface things by saying the woman in question is my girlfriend of almost 8 years. We had gone through a rough patch in the beginning of our relationship and initially there was a no contract order. We have lived together since for the past 7 years. Which i believe they don't just go away.

So fast forward to present day. We have a 6 year old with autism and a 1 year old baby.

Wednesday the 30th.

We had a big fight and I decided I did NOT want to be in this relationship I said we can figure out something out to where we can work something out for custody of the kids.

She lost it. Threw stuff all over the house, broke items of mine and tried throwing stuff outside. It took me 3 hours to be able to get all my stuff and finally leave.

She had called me over 150 times and i was not responding to her. I told her that I will call and tell our 6 year old goodnight and that was it. So she finally had left me alone.

Next day Thursday October 31. Halloween. I had told her that we all can go trick or treating for the sake of the kids and that I did not want it to be about us, but for them. We get done trick or treating and she tries to act like everything is normal and that we didn't just break up. When it came time to it. I said I will be going back to where I was staying and she started again. With my stuff already moved out I didn't have to worry about anything so I left and headed across town. Which is about 20 minutes away. As I pull up to Target she is calling me. Then she sends me texts messages saying how I can take care of the kids and she is leaving the house.

She Then said the kids are left at home ALONE and that I can come and take care of them. I didnt know if she was just saying that to try to control the situation or if she had really left them. I wasn't going to let my kids be left home alone unsupervised. I started to drive back and when I was getting close to the exit it clicked in my head that I should start recording. As I'm driving and have my camera set on the dashboard I see her on a side road, I think we'll maybe she has them with her? But I continue driving and arrive at the apartment and get out, recording all the way into the house and lo and behold the kids are in the house.

The only family I have is in New mexico and I'm in Montana. Her name is on the lease and I would have no where to go. I'm sure I could stay with friends or rent a hotel for a month.

Also is the no contact order going to hold any validity considering we've lived together for the past 7 years.

What will CPS possibly tell me?

I have yet to call because I'm afraid of what might happen if she find out.

I do not want them to take my kids. I do not want to get in trouble. Please any help is very much appreciated. I feel trapped.

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