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[USA-IL] I'm stuck with a control freak sister and I'm not sure what to do or where to go.
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I'm 29 and I'm disabled. I can't take care of myself and my mom recently passed away from cancer and she was taking care of me. She was working on getting me into a home with other people who would be able to take care of me. But my sister said it would be a good idea to move in with her so I have more freedom and I'm in a small town I would have more access to everything.

My mom had a prius she gave to me, said that I could sell it towards bills. Instead of going towards bills, my sister sold it to my other sister, and said it was going towards groceries. (which half the time I'm not allowed to even eat despite her taking my money from the car that was suppose to be money towards bills) and she just says "mom would have wanted it this way" so shes basically feeding her family with the money from the car I was suppose to go towards bills and pay off my credit card/paypal fees. Yes I do get some food, but the car was suppose to go towards bills. Unfortunately I didn't get any audio evidence of mom saying it should have gone towards bills.

My sister has also accused me of stealing food, of hers. She will yell and scream at me for hours convinced that I did it when I didn't. For example, she had some peanuts on her table, when she got home she found the peanuts opened the floor and found the dogs eating them, and she accused me of moving the container and said I ate them. She had some peanut butter reeses sitting on the table, accused me of eating them despite me telling her multiple times I can't stand the taste of peanut butter. And not to mention, I went to the store and got a loaf of bread for her. I had a piece of toast last night and a couple of piece for a sandwhich this morning and this afternoon (probably went through about 5 pieces) then she accuses me of eating the entire loaf of bread within 2 days when theres 3 pieces left when I didn't even eat half of it. She screamed at me for 20 minutes about eating bread and accused me of stealing the rest of it when I only took what I was allowed to have.

I've been out of work now for 5 months now (I now owe $1000 to my credit card company and PayPal) everytime I talk to her, she says "shes still waiting on state paperwork" and it could take months. I'm worried I'm going to be sued by the credit card companies because I'm almost 6 months behind now. SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE HAD A JOB READY FOR ME. THAT WAS THE ONLY REASON I AGREED TO MOVE TO HER HOUSE INSTEAD OF THE DISABLED HOME.

I moved over from missouri over to illionis because she promised she had a job ready for me and all she had to do was talk to her boss for an interview. I said fine, I'll move in with her instead of moving into a home with other disabled people. Because more freedom sounded nicer.

My biggest issue, is that she's been lying to me and she treats me like a child. I have a cerfew on when I'm allowed to be online, and internet is heavily monitored she treats me like a toddler. She won't let me have any privacy. She has me living in the basement and said "you'll pay rent once you get work" and has even put a kitchen downstairs, but says I have to either eat upstairs or outside in the cold.

I have no freedom here at all, I feel like I'm in a cell. half the time they're noisy or their kid will be jumping around and screaming and if I ask them to keep it down they refuse. but yet they ask me to keep it down if my tv gets a little too loud.

is there anything I can do legally? because it feels like I'm stuck here and I'm falling behind more and more on bills, and I'm scared on whats going to happen to me, and I have very little freedom in this household.

forgot to mention, I did have a job when I was in missouri. My sister forced me to quit my job since I had no way to get to work, and I wasn't able to get to work since my mom was facing cancer at the time. So I was put on medical leave, and my sister said I had to quit my job before moving over, and said she had the job ready for me.

Please help me for the love of god, because I'm genuinely terrified living here and I don't think I'm gonna make it living here. I'm scared on what she will do to me, half the time she does nothing but scream at me and I just don't know how to handle it.

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