My ex and I have been divorced since 2014. That was the last time our child support had been calculated. I have 100% custody with him visiting every few years. I told him I would like to have our child support reviewed. He's an E6 in San Diego with 14 years. He says he makes about $5000 a month. He told me if I asked for an adjustment this would blow up in my face. He claims the state reviews his tax returns every year and he should be paying less. We had an okay relationship but as soon as l asked about child support he began threatening me telling me I wasn't going to like what would happen. He went on to say I would end up getting way less. I sent him the online calculator for our state WA. I gave him my information and told him to put his in there. He refused. If I did this my kid's child support would double. I'm afraid of what happens. He helps with nothing. I'm rather pissed that he is acting like this. I'm also pretty sure he is lying about his income. Should I forget the child support and keep a cordial relationship? St く