My grandma made a will back in 2019 leaving me everthing. She doesn’t have much but she does have a home. I’ve been living in it since 2020 and paying the mortgage. My grandma was living in a Senior Apartment building so she could be around people her old age.

In 2021 she was diagnosed with dementia. It was tough but she was still able to live on her own. I took over paying her bills and other financial things because she did struggle with that. Outside of that she was still able to live independently. I took her to the drs regularly and other small outings to keep her happy.

Fast forward to now and my grandmother can’t live on her own. I was preparing to have her live with me however her my uncle, her son, who she disinherited in her will has my grandma living with him.

In a short time he’s taken her to the bank closed her accounts and have even taken her to visit her attorney. I believe he’s trying to get her will changed in her current state.

I have a letter from one of her doctors saying she can no longer manage her affairs. I’m wondering if I should send that to her attorney? would it keep him from making changes to her will since she does has diminished capacity?

I called his office asking if my uncle had brought my grandma in and he got really rude with me. While I know my grandma is his client…my uncle is taking her around and taking advantage of her. I tried to explain that potential fraud was happening and he explained the same thing could be said about me…and that again my grandma was his client not me.

Should I send the letter from the dr to her attorney to make him aware that she cannot manage her affairs anymore and that whatever is going on is not on the up and up?