Hey, I just don't know if there is something like destiny or fate exist, but I really love programming. I even thought about learning it alone.

Here's my problem- I just got a job from my father's friend which is related to civil engineering. I went over there for oneday i just hated what's going in there. I also hate civil engineering. After I completed my higher education I started doing a software engineering degree I always loved in programming since In my high-school but I don't have money to Continue my degree I have learnt HTML,CSS,Javascript and Bootstrap. Now my parents asking me to do the civil engineering job I really hate that but I can't continue my degree without it it's a 10 hour job its really hard to work in the job and the education together but if I quit the degree and continue my job I will have to forget and end the programming career I always loved it I also can do a degree which have low price but it will take time. Right now, icant decide what to do I don't know why, but my life don't let me to have a degree related to IT I have obstacles.But I really love programming

Should I take the job and end my programming career which I loved since my childhood I really hate this decision Or Should I wait for IT degree which will take few time plus its not much organised I'm kinda not shure about it.

Pls help