I started a journal about a month ago to remember all of my wife and I's sexual experiences. Really it started as a line or two in a notepad doc but as time goes on I'm detailing much more and even including our date nights. I record communication break-throughs and even break-downs. I suffer from leaky brain so if I don't write I find it hard to recall everything in such detail. I've shared a few with my wife and she likes to read my recollection of things. It helps her see how I saw an event and sometimes we discuss. I write down my emotions soon after the event happens before they fade.

I think this is a great relationship tool. It helps me be more mindful and appreciate how blessed I am. I love to write and capture intense physical and spiritual experiences. It also helps me be a better lover and remember what my wife likes IN DETAIL. Not so humble brag, we missed 4 days of sexual experiences in the last 29 if I include today. We aren't going for records here but we have been intentional and having fun. I think it would be awesome if this convo could increase how much sex you're having with your spouse and how close you feel to them.