Edit: Holy crap I was not prepared for the number of scammers who are contacting me. In retrospect, I should have seen that coming. If you are reading this and plan on trying to scam me, please just save your own time and move on. Please, I beg you! It's not going to work and another piece of my soul dies each time I read the same opening line.

I still weigh 440lbs though. Might as well get that out up front.

I've lost 100lbs over the past year in order to have bariatric surgery, which happened 2 weeks ago. Losing that much weight, I can already feel a huge difference and I'm so excited because I know it's only going to get better from here!

I've fooled around a bit with a girlfriend back in high school, but never did anything beyond heavy petting and would like to change that. I'm also interested in being instructed on how to best please a women. I take a methodical and meticulous approach to most things, and tend to be a quick learner, so I hope I could make practicing enjoyable for you.

I'd also enjoy just chatting. I have no trouble carrying a conversation from a professional or friendly point of view but have pretty much no experience flirting as I've never tried. I imagine the only way to get better is to just do it and fail miserably for a while, so if nothing else, I might be able to give you some laughs with my clumsy attempts. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!

I don't really expect for this to work, but just trying it is something I wouldn't have even thought of a year ago. It's no surprise I have self esteem issues, but have been working with my therapist to change my outlook, and have made great progress with that as well. I still don't think anyone could be attracted to or desirous of me as I am now, but believe that it can and will happen someday. I'll keeping working on my physical and mental health until it does!