I would say I'm great at manifesting things and totally agree with needing to let go and waiting for cosmic timing for it to happen at the best time in the best way. So why can't I let go? I used to be incredibly detached from relationships and the result was that I had a lot of people interested, dated loads, and got involved with so many great people. After a while of dating around I decided to try to manifest my perfect partner, and it was instant, no blocks at all. I found her and felt that gut feeling of "thats her" and then it just happened so effortlessly. It was cool for a short while but it ended. I didn't take it badly but it changed how detached I could be; since then I've been struggling a lot with obsessing over wanting someone and wanting that feeling back - which is totally driving it further away. I know I don't need it. I honestly believe I don't need it, since I've gone most of my life happily without it and every day I'm reminded of how awesome my life is with or without it. In fact a lot of the time I've spent this past couple of years has been avoiding it entirely so I can focus more on my own stuff.

I'm busy building my dream life which is full and fulfilling (interestingly enough, totally opposite when I was successfully dating, when I didn't have much going on), so the advice everyone - including myself - gives of focusing on other stuff is kind of not working because I just can't seem to stop myself thinking about it, or seeing signs that remind me of this stuff. It's almost like the universe keeps waving a carrot in front of me to keep it on my mind. I go for months without any interest from anyone, and every time I do let go for even just a day, I end up meeting someone new and it pushes me back into thinking about relationships. Maybe the universe is giving me these girls and then immediately taking them away to get me to detach again?

What do you think? And what are your methods of letting go?

namaste dudes :)