I came out about 2 years ago and entered my first queer relationship shortly after. In a lot of lesbian spaces I’ve entered since then, women are sexualized like crazy (which I understand being that we’re brought together by our sexuality…which is being attracted to females) but I feel weird always talking about how attractive this woman or female is.

Like I hated when men only talked about how women looked and how hot they are? But it’s okay when other women do it?

Idk if I’m looking at this too black and white but something about it doesn’t sit right with me.

Idk if it’s that I’m jealous but also attracted to women so I feel conflicted?

I find it hard to make friends with other lesbians because all they wanna talk about is how hot other women are. Like am I just being lame and need to loosen up? Orrrr? Lmao #help

THANK U TO EVERYONE WHO TOOK THE TIME TO RESPOND! It’s been very helpful and I’m soooo appreciative