Question is pretty self-explanatory, but I’m curious if there are any other LBLs that discovered their sexuality after marriage to a man and then made the decision to stay married—and what was the reason for that decision?

I think a lot about Glennon Doyle and whether it would have been as easy for her to pick up and leave her husband for Abby if her husband hadn’t been cheating.

What if you had a solid & good marriage with your best friend, but you just sort of awakened slowly, without any person in particular opening your eyes—thus meaning you’d be completely alone if you left and rip apart the heart of the person you love most in the world?

What do you do? What have you done?