Hi all,

I'm...technically a bit young for this at 34, but this community has been better than amazing from my interactions. I'm in the dating scene and so far, most dates have been either a quick coffee date or a month of online talking and then over to my place for some - albiet fun - messing around then they lose interest.

I dunno...
I used to bring a rose to each date
And I'd try to learn what they like so I could make it or buy it for them if we kept going.
I'm bad with nicknames but I try.

And most of the time it feels like its...a quickie or they want to be "roomates who fuck".

One of my friends said I'm just too old fashioned for this era.

Do ya'll have this problem?