My friend said I'm too old to be submissive as a woman.

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Hi all,
So, I'm..a bit of a late bloomer who's not...having the best dating record.
For context, I'm 34 and a trans woman. I realized I am a lesbian around 3 years ago and still working on processing everything. To that point, I've dated a bit and have had some limited sexual encounter.

After a devastating breakup at the end of September, I started talking to my friends about it and got the advise that, unless you already have a partner by 30, you can't be a submissive woman after 30 and land a partner. I'm pretty sure they're wrong but they are more experienced especially in BDSM stuff than I am.

Can I ask for some stories of folk finding a dominant woman after 30 or advise on how to...find a dominant woman?

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