I'm 28 and used to identify as bi, though after my breakup last year with a male partner I realised that I'm not attracted to men and just really liked the attention.

Since then I've taken a break from dating and tried to really focus on myself and learnt to decenter men. Problem is, now I notice how much my friends talk about men and and the milestones they're achieving while I get "you'll find your person when you least expect it" 💀. It's left me feeling quite lonely even if it gives me peace.

I know I'm still fairly young but I can't help but feel like I'm behind, especially when I've not kissed a girl or flirted with one in person and my friends around me are in serious relationships and getting married. I'd like to meet more people but I'm introverted, work from home, and my town doesn't really have events or anything I'm interested in. I've tried dating apps but they're pretty terrible and I'm pretty much left on read.

Hopefully one day I'll make some cool queer friends, or even meet my person, but til then it's sapphic yearning!