Hey ladies ❤️ I’ll try to keep this short but I’m just hoping someone can empathize with this situation and or maybe has some advice for me. I came out a few years ago, (even though I had been with women in the pas) I ended up marrying a man - comp het of course - and then divorced when realizing I was actually fully gay.

I ended up getting back into a lesbian relationship shortly after, which has been really wonderful for the past couple of years. We don’t fight, our sex life is wonderful, and up until very recently, I had very very minimal doubts. I have never really complained about anything because it’s been such an easy going relationship.

Fast forward to this year, I met another lesbian friend at work and instantly I felt a connection with her. I passed it off as just her personality type because I’m typically very attracted to more dominant, confident women (opposite of my partner) and she is definitely that way. We’ve been friends for the last 4 months or so, hung out together - with my current partner aware, nothing hiding etc. but the more time we spend together, the more that “feeling” is tugging at me.

I can’t tell if it’s just because I’m typically attracted to that type of woman, and it’s a physical/energy thing? Or if it’s some sort of sign that I’m not getting SOMETHING from my current relationship?? I really did not think this would ever be an issue, and I was planning on marrying my Current partner. But I feel like this shouldn’t be happening if I was truly satisfied?

Has anyone ever gone through something like this before? I’ve never had this happen especially when I was in a healthy, loving relationship? And I don’t know what to do moving forward.