After spending the past few months questioning my sexuality, accepting that I'm a lesbian and overcoming my fear of letting go of my codependent relationship, I am finally going to come out to boyfriend tonight. I just feel the need to make this post to hold myself accountable in a way. Any advice is also welcome!

We have been together for 3 years and live together. He doesn't seem to realise that anything is wrong, or he isn't bringing it up if he has realised. The plan is to come home from work, pack a small overnight bag so that I can stay at a friend's for the night (assuming this will probably be necessary) and then sit him down to talk. I am so scared. This is going to uproot my whole life. I know it'll be worth it in the end though.