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Latebloomer heartbreak ..how do yall deal?
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I feel so silly even writing this because tbh I never even met the woman in person (we both were considering an LDR).. but I recently had been talking to someone day in and day out for almost a month (i know i know... that damn lesbian romance really does move fast!). Literally non stop aside from when she was working and even then she'd message me throughout the day.. the last week or so we ended up starting to argue every day, a lot of the time over petty small stuff, however, it felt like she was making digs at me saying I was just too sensitive and stuff. It really hurt. As of 2 nights ago I finally said I didn't want to pursue anything anymore as I just really didn't want to argue but I also felt like I was being disrespected a lot and every time I'd mention having boundaries she would tell me "why is it everything with you turns into boundaries and narcissism, what isn't boundaries and narcissism to you?" And that just really hurt and again, felt like it was disrespecting me and my BOUNDARIES. Am I in the wrong for feeling hurt and ending things? Of course this is one sided and I'm sure she'd have her own things to say in regards to it. But. This was my first real wlw romance where I felt.. incredibly deeply connected to someone and even though I'm the one who stepped away, it still sucks and hurts and I can't stop thinking about it and if what I did was right or wrong. Thoughts? Advice?

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