This woman. Omg... ok let me start by saying I have zero experience in dating women. I'm Married to a man in an open marriage and have only had the female vibe 3 times. This is the third one. The first one was so strong we talked about it immediately and couldn't do anything about it. The second one was a steriotyplical Gemini(hopefully you get that) but this one omg.

Ok I was shopping for instacart for the past year. I'd often see the employees at one particular store all the time but this particular employee I only saw a few times a month. Every single time I saw her, I'd catch her staring at me smiling then look away when our eyes meet. There's something about her I immediately crushed on Since the first time I saw her. I have purple hair and she always compliments it. All I can say is thank you because she makes me go stupid. Anyway, one day about a month after first seeing her, I was shopping and she came up to me really close. Like leaning on my shoulder and said in my ear about 2 inches away, "whatcha looking for?" I looked up and said, "you're so pretty " it was like a reflex 😆. She blushed and said thank you then I showed her my instacart screen and she helped me find that item and vanished lol I really didn't need the help she knows that.🤦‍♀️ anyway I have since stopped instacart and I rarely go to that store for myself but right before Thanksgiving I did and right after I went in she came up to me and complimented my hair again. She had to know I'm the same person right? Like seriously how many purple hair lifers are there? But my reaction was, you work here don't you? She looked like she was shopping but then I realized after I said that dumb reply because she makes me go stupid. I noticed she's doing the in store shopping for instacart 😆 so then of course because I'm so nervous I start to drift off in my own shopping list meanwhile my teenager who was with me said why don't you tell her you like her? And proceeded to hunt the lady down while we continued to shop who by the way we saw in 2 other isles but I didn't say anything but the eye contact and smile was there.

I really want to tell her I like her. I'm so scared that it's just her being friendly but the vibe is so strong. She makes me so nervous that I can never remember to even look at her badge and find out her name. What do I say? I was gonna tell her she makes me go stupid to which she'd hopefully laugh and ask why and go from there. What do you think?