For context I came out 6/2022 to my husband, we broke up and got back together a couple times up until officially separating for good around 6/2023. In that whole year we were never intimate but tried being poly and all that. We are still very close and friendly.

7/2023 I was introduced to someone and we really hit it off. I felt extremely guilty and that it was all too soon. I did start my grieving process 6/2022 though so I eventually realized it wasnt. This morning we decided to become official.

How did you go about telling your ex? We are not officially divorced yet, havent been in a rush tbh. Did family/friends take it well? I dont want this person to feel im hiding her but also dont want it to seem like im flaunting either.