I know there is no rulebook on this but curious what others have done/think. For context: I figured out I was gay 1/2022, came out 6/2022 to my husband. We separated, I got sick so we got back together, tried polyamory, separated again 11/2022, got back together 3/2023 and separated again 6/2023. These are ballpark numbers some may be off a month. I moved out 3 weeks ago and it’s been very very hard. I miss my home, my dog and my best friend. I do not miss a romantic relationship with him though as we havent had one in a long time. We have not been intimate in over a year. When we did get back together we would kiss but that was all and it was def not passionate. A little over 2 months ago I was introduced to someone and we hit it off. Things have been progressing emotionally and sexually but I feel so weird like its all too soon. I have processed the separation for the most part just not losing my dog and home so I dont see why I couldnt date yet but idk I have a huge guilty feeling. Like if we do make it official ill hurt him and since a lot of people on the outside dont know we have had issues for the last year it may seem crazy quick to our friends and family. It also just feels strange to start a new relationship from scratch. I feel hella awkward most of the time lol Any advise is appreciated 😌 I am in therapy which is helping. Also this person is fully aware of everything and they have been so incredibly supportive and understanding.