Hey there! It's been a minute since I've posted here so let's try again! (Mostly copied and pasted, but how much does one really change in like two months?)

Currently I work from home, doing a lot of vibing, and trying to catch up on all the books I have bought and haven't read yet. Current read is Elton John's autobiography (fantastic), but typically fiction/novels especially with a lot of deeper thematic explorations, but the occasional scifi/fantasy is great too! Trying to get into grad school, preferably on the east coast tbh, but we'll see about that.

I also do some photography! Not really a professional, but I do some ringside work with local indie pro wrestling. Some portraits, too. I've been trying to branch out and develop my skills outside of wrestling because the scene here is such a boys club and sometimes exhausting to keep up with lmao.

I've recently binged Euphoria and Our Flag Means Death so I really got through the whole emotional spectrum of the human experience there. I write sometimes, poetry, essays, fiction, (whispers) occasionally fanfiction. Also write about video games sometimes, and I've been playing a fair amount of Destiny with friends (if you happen to like games, I find them to be like a great way to have social bonding time) but I also like smaller story-driven stuff. Disco Elysium is probably my favorite thing out there. Music wise it's all over the place. I don't even know how to describe genres anymore, but a lot of the stuff I like is probably pop-adjacent. I've been listening to Harry Styles, MCR, Woodkid, The Midnight, stuff like that. I have two cats, both huge.

Uhhh some other stuff about me. I'm like 5'11 and chubby, though I've done weightlifting in the past and plan to get back to it. I believe in tipping and acab and blm. I can be morally stubborn and I think cilantro tastes like soap. I do eat meat frequently. If that's a turnoff, I understand. I'm mindful of my surroundings and of other people, and generally believe that we should try to make each other's lives easier through meaningful if brief contact. I'm not perfect and will never pretend to be, or expect you to be. I'm also a late bloomer with little experience but some shitty relationship baggage, but I try to talk about it openly. I'm like demisexual and my gender is kind of fluid, though I go by she/they. My parents don't know I'm gay and I don't know when they will, but they're not really people you would want or need to meet at this point so you're not missing out on anything. Here's me, it's an old photo but it's one I like and I haven't changed much.

I am monogamous, in case that's a deal breaker!

What I'm looking for is primarily enthusiasm and communication. Obviously I want someone who has a robust life outside of me, but I can't imagine dating someone who I didn't want to talk to a lot, or play games with, or watch stuff with, or just share the daily mundanity of life and the very deep things with, and vice versa. It's not a 'text back immediately' thing (because I'm also busy and forgetful) but just 'if I have to be the one to initiate conversation most of the time I will feel like I'm bothering you and will probably just move on' kind of thing. Maybe we could write letters? God, imagine that huh. Otherwise my preferences aren't too narrow. I would prefer no more than like 3 years younger/older age difference, and maybe in the same location generally, but I'm also willing and able to travel (enjoy it, even!)

Also just a side note: No, I am not the guy who was being creepy in people's DMs. That was gothboxx or gothboxxx or something and I'm still not sure why he borrowed my name to be creepy and yet not try to impersonate me at all? Weird stuff, stay safe out there.

That's it, I think! Thanks for reading all this if you did, and if I sound like your kind of person maybe send me a lil message. :)

Happy Sunday!