A little disclaimer before you read on: I AM looking for something that would grow into a serious, monogamous relationship. Since this is online, it is assumed that depending on where the 2 of us are located, it will be LDR for a bit. I would prefer someone in California if all possible since it would make closing the gap easier, but it's not a requirement. However, if a serious relationship (possibly a LDR) isn't what you want or you don't think you are ready for that, that's fine. I'm just not the person for you. Also, I'm sorry but I can't do international dating again (its too far for me and too many variables to manage). So please only message if you're in the states, otherwise they will go unread.
Alright, I’ve had it with dating apps lol. They are not getting me anywhere, not that they ever have, and I know many of you can agree. I have been waiting my whole life to meet someone special who i'm able to love the way they deserve. Stick with me and that WILL happen. I've tried this method on reddit many times so far, stopped for almost 2 years because I had horrible, traumatic luck before that. I wasn’t planning on being back, but I’m going to give it another shot, hoping for better.
I've wanted to be with someone since I was a little girl, but it hasn't exactly happened for me. Not from lack of trying, I def. want to get to know someone and hopefully deeply connect. Although i'm shy, I do really crave interaction with other people. It does take me awhile to warm up to people, so please be patient with me<3 I am very loyal and once I love someone, I love them forever. I'm nonjudgemental, never want anyone to feel like they can't tell me something. I am very giving, probably to a fault lol. My friends also say that I am very easy to talk to and I tend to be pretty open as long as I am comfortable with you. I want to find someone who respects me, spends time with me, is patient and accepting, and who grows to love me for exactly who I am. Hopefully I will find someone who enjoys my company as much as I enjoy theirs lol. I DO tend to be more attracted to femme girls, or blue jean femmes, just so you guys know<3 I appreciate it when people ask me things, and I will for sure ask YOU things. In fact, if you've read this far, in your message tell me if you could go back to anytime in your past and relive it again for a day, what part and why. That's how i'll know you saw everything=) I try to be safer online than most because I HAVE had bad online experiences. I hope you understand and respect that as well. Oh, VERY IMPORTANT!!! I am looking for people between the ages of 21-30. I just feel I normally connect with that age group better than people who are much older than me.

A LITTLE about me (more to come in our convos):
* I am 29
* I graduated college in 2020 with a Human Development bachelors degree and work at a grocery store as a cashier and florist. I’ve posted some of my creations recently<3
* I am probably THE most feminine girl you will EVER meet lol. I love dresses, pink, lace, ruffles, bows and flowers. I love the Disney princesses (ALL Disney actually, will be happy if you like it too), Belle is my favorite=) I also love 50s/60s fashion.
* I live with my mom and my younger sister in NorCal
* I love scary movies and stories/the paranormal. I have SO many stories to tell about that so I will be very happy if you show interest in that too=)
* I write a lot, am trying to do it more than I was a few years ago.
* I DO eventually want to get married and have kids, but that isn't anything that is happening RIGHT now. I just want to put that out there because I know its not everyone's dream
* You can tell from my page, I am a romantic. I am very affectionate and expressive, it is very easy to see how I feel about someone. I will pay attention to what you like, leave little notes and voice messages, i'l want to do special things for you, literally the whole shebang. I am a little clingy and can sometimes get overly excited when i'm super happy, but I really do try to treat you the very best that I can always and I genuinely want to.
* I am online a fair amount each day (unless work has been bananas) and I try to be pretty responsive. I'm also on till pretty late at night too so meeting someone who also is would be fabulous, but its not a requirement<3 In that same vein, I know life gets busy, none of us are going to be around every minute of the day. However, I will put in the time and effort for you, so please put in the time for me if you are interested in me. I will be around at least sometimes each day.
* I’m putting this just cause in the past it was a dealbreaker for some people: I DO have a dog and 3 cats. I love dogs, I love cats, I grew up with both. I WILL have them in my life going forward so if that won’t work out for us, then I can’t work out for us.
* I also do not drink at all, do not smoke and do not do any kind of drugs. I don’t mind if you casually drink or do weed, but if either thing is your sole pastime, you need me to do it, OR you are into harder drugs, I’m not your girl.

I put the location that I did because I would prefer to find someone that either lives really close to where I am (California) so that we could hopefully close the gap sooner. If you are from farther away (still within the US), but do not really feel tied down to where you live, i'm open to hearing from you too. I just want to be honest with you guys from the start because I don't think I’ll be able to leave California. I know that’s a BIG ask of anyone and its not something everyone can do or feel comfortable doing, believe me I get it and I understand. Also, PLEASE NO GUYS hit me up, I will just be deleting the messages so it is a complete waste of your time. Also, PLEASE talk if you choose to write to me lol. So often I try to reach out to people who either cannot hold a conversation or don't care enough to get to know the other person. If that happens, I will stop responding. Thank you for reading the great American novel and I hope to hear from you soon=)<3