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After watching Hoshi say that he recently moved into his own room for the first time after 10 years of living with a roommate, I’m thinking more and more about how stressful it must be for idols to live in dorms with their members. Even if an idol is close friends with his team, spending 24/7 with them (or any given person) must be stressful as hell. After all, they are coworkers when it comes down to it. They don’t get personal space (especially in the earlier days of their career when they have roommates), and they can’t separate work from personal life.
I personally couldn’t imagine living with my coworkers, and especially couldn’t do that in my mid to late twenties. I’m sure the idols by now have learned to make do or even enjoy the situation, but to me, an outsider, it all just seems so stressful and not ideal to stuff adult coworkers with different personalities and tendencies into one apartment. Extra props to the idols who’ve been living in dorms for 5 years, I could never...
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Yeah also I feel like in Asia, most of us are pretty used to living with people especially in big cities? I live in HK where apartments are so small and expensive that a normal person with a normal job can’t really afford one, so most people either live with their parents even until their late 20s or move in with a friend or two in a super cramped space. Seoul is pretty much the same. Plus, Asian society is more collective, so people are more likely to compromise and live with others more harmoniously. In the West, individuality is so treasured that even the thought of giving up some personal relaxation for another person is unthinkable. Just my two cents.
Plus, I also went to a boarding school in high school where I shared a tiny room with 3 other people for two years, and then for my university, I’ve shared a tiny room washroom with two others. It takes some adjustment but it really isn’t difficult. I feel like after a while, even as an introvert, you get used to being around others that living completely alone feels a tiny bit isolating (especially as I don’t personally actively seek out social interaction most of the time).