I'm so excited but also a little scared So there's a bdsm club around 2 hours from where I live that hosts once a month an afternoon party for people under 35 years old and I'm going with a friend! We already planned our outfits and stuff and I'm soooo excited but I'd like to know how it works if anyone already went to one, and what is safe and what isn't and tips on how to handle my autism hypersensitivity and also how to make sure everything is safe We already have plenty of condoms, and won't accept anything without it, and I also know pretty well what I like and don't like so I know what I want and I'll be able to say it to people So yeah, mostly looking for advice and knowledge on how it works! And ofc I'll update y'all on how it went!