Hello,

This is my third attempt at this, I have had some slight success and met some kind people online but I’m hoping for more of a in-person connection. I absolutely understand that approaching with caution is in our best interest and assure you that your safety physically and emotionally are a top priority of mine. I’ll give you as much detail about me as I can and be as transparent as possible.

I am in a relationship that I get a lot out of. We are best friends and I am not looking to alter my situation. That said, there are things that require my partner to make changes, things beyond my control. My partner is attempting to address these things but after years of dealing with it I’ve found myself in a strange place.

I am really looking to be desired. I am very fit, workout often, intelligent, tall and successful. I feel like I am an ideal partner, supportive and caring, but the depression and anxiety my partner has begun to alter how I see myself. Many have suggested I simply end things, and I can’t bring myself to do it as I do love my partner very much.

I know this is probably the wrong place to be, I simply feel that if I can feel wanted physically I can make it over this hump. I am not looking for love, nor am I looking to break up your world - I seek only a temporary fulfillment of each others needs.

I am a man of planning. Discretion is a must and as such, I have a set of hard rules that we must respect just as I expect you have rules we must also respect. I am calculated and determined to design scenarios that ensure the safety of ourselves and the ones we care about.

I would consider myself attractive, detail oriented, empathetic and caring. I am an active listener and will hear and act on your concerns. We both have lives where we are comfortable and it is a high priority that I do everything in my power to keep those lives intact.

What I expect:

• you should be fit, you don’t need to me a model but I am looking for someone who takes care of themselves.

• you are dedicated to our security.

• you understand this is temporary

• you are engaging and willing to meet relatively soon, if we have a connection of course.

• you have a life you love and don’t want anything about that life to change

• you have respect for my concerns and can walk away at any time.

What you’ll get from me

• dedication to your security and keeping that security intact

• a fit, attractive, intelligent partner that can fulfill whatever it is you’re missing.

• engaging conversation and someone to listen to the things you cannot tell anyone else.

• someone who respects your concerns, and will comply with whatever it is you need when I can

• someone who keeps your happiness, needs and safety top-of-mind

I will not be showing my face on here, but have a body shot as my profile picture. I will also share other body shots if we vibe for verification. You will only ever see my face under a controlled scenario, one that looks innocuous and almost as if it’s two strangers passing each other by.

I am aware this is a lot but again, the meticulous man I am, they are required. I can fit in any role you may need, even if it’s simply an emotional partner. Looking forward to hearing from you.