My husband said he was leaving me, he says 90 days should be suffice to figure out the next chapter of our lives, separately.

Thankfully, I transferred all the company assets: furniture, cars, house, computers, property.

Had a hunch, his PH balance was off, something smelled fishy!

I created a separate holding company, and held the assets under a sole proprietor: ME!

Furthermore, I began to sell OUR personal assets to my mother, like his 1969 mustang, or whatever! I gifted my mother the car for $1.00 usd. Began transferring other items like our home, and 11 acre ranch in Montana. These all became “gifts” for other people in my life who I entrusted while we finalized the divorce.

I then went to our board of directors, and demanded a significant salary increase, and of course an increased number of shares within the company.

My husband always said there was no need for me to become a shareholder in the company, but I’ve decided to go against his wishes and explore other avenues of income to become financially independent.

The board voted and agreed to the vacation pay out as well as the quarterly bonuses of $25,000.

I then felt more secure knowing there was a safety net, being in fight or flight wasn’t a safe place for me emotionally.

After we signed the divorce papers, and the attorneys divided all the assets. . .

He began to rethink his decisions of being with other women and started to cry!

My soon to be ex husband was down on his knees, just like I remember. But this time under different circumstances.

I kept thinking how unattractive he was while he sobbed, especially the muffled sound of himsaying “I love you”.

Gosh, when did he start balding, so badly? The view from looking down at him, was especially frightening.

I told him to stop being pitiful. Asked him if his Tuesday afternoon endeavors every end of the month were worth it?

I took everything, left him with the dog and his fleshlight.