Hey Bros!

Been a lurker here for a while and really enjoying the content, chill vibes and a pretty wholesome community so thought I'd do my part and contribute with my story that took place a few years ago.

I was in my early 30's, single and working from home. I'd dumped my last girlfriend a while back and was back on tinder swiping away on women. I had no problems finding women, chatting or getting dates but it was rarely on tinder as it seemed pretty abandoned at the time. Most action seemed to be on bumble and Tinder seemed mostly for hooking up and collecting matches. For this reason I would just check it every few days, swipe right on everything until I ran out of matches and occasionally send a few messages that led nowhere. I should note I was only swiping on women.

As I was swiping and collecting matches I got a message from someone with a weird profile pic. It appeared to be a dude in his work clothes, no face showing. The shoes, pants and stance gave away that this was no chick. He quickly came forward he was just a curious dude, swiping on dudes to see if there was any interest. I have no idea how we matched but truth be told I had been curious about exploring with a dude (but never acted on it) and he seemed super nice and chill, very on the same page so we talked for a bit.

I was honest and told him I'd never been with a dude. He suggested to come over and he'd get me off however I wanted. It was very casual and weirdly comforting. I noticed during the conversation I was rock hard and couldnt believe I was actually entertaining this idea. All horned up, I finally agreed. I was not interested in sex, or blowjobs but said I'd be down for stroking, body contact. We both agreed to shower before so I sent him my address, hopped in the shower and waited.

I was super nervous and a bit afraid. He showed up in a nice vehicle, looking normal, about same size as me and was very polite. We had some small talk in the living room and I eventually motioned for him to head over to the bedroom which made him grin.

Once we got into the bedroom we both undressed and sat down on my bed. We were both hard and he reached over and grabbed my cock. The feeling was unreal, like nothing I ever felt before. A firm hand that knew exactly what to do. Stroking it up and down with his warm big hands. I asked if I could touch his and he said of course. I reached over. He wasnt fully erect but a few strokes and he got fully hard. I'm about 6 inches uncut and he was about the same but cut. Mine was a bit thicker but other than that pretty similair. For some reason this made me more comfortable. Making another man feel good with my hands felt surreal and I was kinda taken aback how casual and normal it felt. Kinda like 2 dudes working on a DIY project together haha.

After a few strokes I asked him if I could rub my cock on his ass. We had discussed this on tinder when he asked if there was anything I was curious to try, and he laid down. Putting my body on his body and hump his ass felt just as good as I had imagined. He was blonde and his white buns covered in golden hair which felt amazing to run my cock back and forth on. Burying my cock between his cheeks felt incredible. I wanted to see what it felt like so I asked him to switch positions and we did. Feeling his ass hump my cheeks felt incredible. . There was no sex, just naked humping.

He asked me to lay on my back, so I did - not knowing why or what was going to happen. He hopped on top and started to grind his hard cock on mine. I immediately leaned into this because it felt amazing. I reached down and jerked our cocks as he was humping away and we got closer and closer. I could tell he was loving this, as was I, and he collapsed ontop of me and basically fucked his cock on my cock.

I opened my arms and hugged him as he humped away. I pulled him in tighter and tighter as we both moaned and humped our cocks harder and harder. This continued for a bit until he popped out of my arms and came all over my stomach. He apologized and climbed off me, and went to the bathroom and got some TP. He cleaned me up and apologized again. I was a bit confused and not sure what to think. At the moment it felt a bit weird but thinking back it was so hot and I wish I could have embraced it more.

It didnt take long to clean up and he immediately grabbed my cock and jerked me in a fast pace. I loved how hard he grabbed it and how fast he went. I was thinking how good he was, but it made sense since he also had a cock haha. I shot a huge load all over myself and bed and he seemed just as excited as I did.

Post nut clarity kicked in and we got dressed and he left.

We talked for a few days about doing it again but it never happened and lost touch. This was a few years and I remember feeling kinda gross and confusing about it afterwards but now it's something I've started craving again.

Having a family now, years later, certainly makes doing something like this again a bit more sticky - pun intented. Reading about others experiences it is something I wish I had, but it seems very hard to find a REAL buddy to have this sort of bond with. For you out there that have it - you guys are lucky. I know many of us crave that, myself included and would be interested in hearing how other married guys navigate this. Tell the wife and risk separation, do it behind their back and feel guilty and risk of caught - or supress it and just let it be a fantasy?

Thanks for reading.