Hey guys, ive been part of the online jo bud scene for years now, and started searching for a meetup my freshman year of college. I wanted to see if other guys relate to a certain scenario that happens often on here.

Every now and then, you come across a dude that sounds like a mirror image of yourself. Same interests, favorite pornstars, sense of humor. It all just clicks. You start talking about meeting up, it looks like everythings coming together.

But next thing you know, hes gone. Account deleted. Pretty low chance youll run into him again. Sometimes youre on the other end, deleting your own account leaving your buddy to wonder what went wrong.

Anyone relate to this? Unfortunately the jobud scene is really flakey, especially among straight dudes like myself. Sometimes we just want to give it all up and focus on our normal lives, but i always find myself right back on here.