Hey guys! Hope everyone is having fun and keeping their dicks hard!

As a long-time online JO bud, I have a laundry list of qualities/traits that I like my prospective JO buds to have – of course, not every bud I've ever chatted with has all of these traits, and that's perfectly okay too (even though I'm sure we're all hunting for that "perfect" bud)!

My questions to the community today are laid out in the title – how "strict" are you on your criteria in meeting/speaking with potential JO buds?

I find that I lean more on the "stricter" side of things myself. That lowers my engagement rate quite a bit, but I also feel it helps me sort through the "chaff" in order to find buds that are more closely aligned with my interests.

Closely related to this issue is another issue I find myself with relatively frequently – how do you know when a jerk bud is right, or more importantly, not right, for you? Sometimes I find myself waffling over a potential bud, unsure if I want to continue or just chalk it up to a whiffed connection, not because of anything that anyone has done, but because I may not feel that "spark" that makes me super excited to get my dick in my hand.

So how do you all go about it? Do you jerk off with anyone who says "hi" to you or do you put potential jerk buds through a Fortune 500 style interview process? Any success stories to share on either end of the spectrum? In a bit of a rut myself so would love to hear from others and how they find success in the online search process!