You boys just missed a helluva time in the steam room! Guess it’s a good thing I didn’t beat off before leaving for the gym! Is this a safe space to speak about shame-free masculinity among other leading edge men? You let me know in the replies. I just enjoyed a five-man circle jerk in the steam.

Walked into the steam room and recognized a fellow bator but there were a few other guys I didn’t recognize or know if they were our kinda people. One, a chatty geriatric guy and another a skinny young college-looking dude. Both of them eventually left and then shortly after, three other nude men walked in and joined me and Bator— a middle aged guy with grey hair.

All sat down in towels but were sitting man spread. Naturally. One guy kept looking around but not doing anything. Always watch for the ones looking around. 😆 Bator buddy started doing the test-the-waters-by-touching-his-dick thing. Two of the other men picked up on the hint and removed their towels and began stroking. At this point it was four of us relaxing and the nervous lookie Lou looking on. All of us had full bushes too which was awesomely affirmative for me. A couple of the guys were covered in hair… I’m jealous!

Eventually Lookie Lou joined the steam pervs and began stroking with us. I mean we out-numbered him after all. Hashtag democracy! Lou only stayed with us pervs for a few minutes before excusing himself and after that I began to get pretty chatty.

“It’s great to be able to be men and relax isn’t it?” I got affirmative nods and replies from all the guys. “Masturbate,” I quietly instructed. 🫠 They were all breathing heavy and audibly moaning, albeit quietly. It was great. A bearded tan guy shot his load on his towel and all three of us guys in unison whispered “fuck yeah” to encourage him. 🥵 It was just reflexive and indicative of men supporting ejaculating men. It was great!

“Do you guys see a lot of guys in here jerking off?” I inquired. “Oh yeah, like every other time I’m in here,” Bearded stud replied. “Good!” I affirmed. “It’s good for us to have these male spaces to show other guys it’s safe to be men. No more sex shame,” I jokingly, but totally seriously quipped.

Bator bud grabbed the cum off the towel and used it as lube to finish himself off. 😳 It was manly AF, I’m not gonna lie. The rest of us quickly finished while they very kindly watched and waited for us.

“Thanks for being cool, gents,” I said smiling. “Ha! You too.”

I honestly would prefer not to share stories publicly about my locker room shenanigans but I recognize my place as sexual teacher and I want to help heal men and natural male sexuality, especially since so many of us clearly enjoy this collaborative male activity. I hope in sharing our normalcy, more of you will create similar experiences in your lives and we’ll create a shame-free ripple effect of sex-positivity. Plus the married men who rarely get pussy (for shame) need a safe outlet to blow loads, so give it to them! Support your brothers.

Will you join me? Reminder that what happens in men’s spaces is men’s business! 💪