Black guy, 35, slim-mid build looking for wank bud.

Chilled, light fun. Into side by side hang outs, helping hand, or both. Very much into no pressure scenarios with sane guys (between ages 22-50) looking for the same. Chat, drink, and go with flow.

I host in North-East London.

DDF (Disease Drug Free) here and specifically looking for same. Pls send a pic of some sort with msg and will send mine in return.

I don't like to lead with demands. But to save time and ensure compatibility, please:

• Be ok with ideally meeting today ("today" being whichever date ad was posted)
• Be ok with me hosting
• Be single (or at least single-ish lol in the sense that our meet is ok/allowed in your setup)
• Be ok with the meet being neither rushed nor a marathon lol. I'm not into in-and-out meets, but also not looking for endless edging session either.
• Lastly, pls don't approach with any racial fetishes. Just a normal, chilled Black guy here open to meeting guys looking for the same. I literally will not respond to any "hung", "BBC", or "gangsta" rhetoric. It's ridiculous at this point lol.

Update 1 (based on some of the replies received):

• I'm kinda open to more planned out meets, but no more than a few days out pls. Momentum is everything lol.

Update 2 (based on some of the replies received):

• Personally dislike profiles that spend the whole time saying what they don't want lol. BUT two things guys, pls (again) don't approach with racial fetishes or stereotypes. It's asked above and ppl are still doing it on first msg lol. Secondly, please be within the age range above and state your age on reply. Just saves both of us time. Thanks!

Update 3 (LOL):

• Ok, last thing (hopefully lol). Please be ok with eventually moving convo to #s or at least Kik if intending to meet. Wanna have a good time like most (hence why we're all here), but equally big on safety and just mature, same-page vibes. Having convos with a few ppl that seem to want to keep chat on here, give the barest minimum dialogue and somehow still meet lol. I get that it's sadly the typical "app" protocol, but if we're planning to stroke together, we can at the bare minimum connect offline lol. It's only polite :-)

Update 4 (Sigh...LOL)

• Do people actually meet here? I'm getting the sense it's a "participate while horny" thing and it all drops off before actually happening? Lots of start-stop convos (again with some folk who don't seem to have digested the above i.e. opening messages like "you hung?" or "I have a partner, but..." lol). Still looking to connect with likeminded for safe, chilled fun. Surely, there are others looking for the same?

If interested and avail, feel free to DM me!